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Are straight people born straight?

  • Over 200 posts on homosexuaity, and not one picture of some fine ladies making out? Shame on all of you.

    MercuryHayes

  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Right after you show me some evidence that people are born gay.

    Okay, just ask a gay person.

    Again why are straight people trying to tell gay people they weren't born that way?

    It's like me telling someone whose parent died "it doesn't hurt, you are just a pvssy"

    You have no idea, you haven't experienced it. So how do you know they were or weren't born that way?

    Cuz the Bible told you that? Or Santorum said so?

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  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Being gay is a choice. Plain and simple. If that means being straight is a choice too, then so be it. In that case, I CHOOSE to be straight. If you choose to like dudes then by all means, gay sex it up. But don't cop out and claim it wasn't your choice. Sure it was. You chose penis over pvssy. Absolutely baffling but whatever. None of my business.

    The real discussion is should gay couples be allowed to adopt children? Discuss.... coffee

    In my 50 plus yrs on this Earth I have personally witnessed the entire life of 2 boys from TOTALLY straight parents(different families).

    I'm talking strong, church going southern rednecks who are totally against gaydom.

    It has been obvious to all that have known these children that they were queer from the start. Their mannerisms, the way they walk, talk, and interact with others is beyond question. The only way I can describe it is to say a girl's mind in a boy's body.

    I am nobody's fool and never have been. Throughout my life I have proven to be a leader of men in many ways and anyone who has ever worked for me or followed me into a combat zone can testify.

    Any of you who cling to the belief that gays simply made a lifestyle choice need to grow up.

    It's my island. I OWN IT.

    beirutvol

  • I'm not going to read through the whole thread and read a bunch of BS from people, but I will settle the debate. It is NOT a choice. It has to do with the mixture of hormones in the female when the fetus is undergoing early neuronal development. The level of androgens (i.e., testosterone) in the pregnant female has been found to determine the level of masculine traits in the fetus, including their sexual orientation and even their childhood play preferences. If there is not an adequate level of androgens, the fetus's mind will develop on a more "female" persona, which, in a complex way, contributes to homosexuality. This is further backed up by the data that homosexual males are more likely to have an older male sibling, which scientists hypothesize results in the development of maternal antibodies to androgens (which females do not normally express at high levels outside of pregnancy), which will neutralize androgens in subsequent pregnancies, resulting in the different neuronal development.

    While homosexuality is not a choice, research points to bisexuality as a choice. fMRI scans were done to subjects who self-identified as homosexual (both male and female), bisexual, and heterosexual. When stimulated by pheromones of both the same and opposite sex, heterosexual individuals showed activity in the parts of their brain that regulate sexual attraction when given pheromones of the opposite sex and homosexual individuals showed activity only when given pheromones of the same sex, but bisexuals only showed activity when given one or the other, not both. Thus, from a neuro-biochemical standpoint, there is no such thing as a bisexual.

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    Contemporary perspectives on lesbian, gay, and bisexual identities

    Whether one defines sexual orientation as sexual behavior, self-identification, or attraction, sexual orientation is primarily about motivation. The same-sex marriage debate is part of a broader discussion about sexual orientation that we are having as a society. Many of the issues have or should be addressed by psychology and related fields, yet this literature is not yet well-known. Thus, the goal of this volume is to provide a forum for leading scholars to share their work on a variety of topics including the experience, same-sex families, hate crimes and bias, and psychobiological underpinning of sexual orientation. Because gays, lesbians, bisexuals and their families live with an evolving legal status for their civing rights and protections, this volume also examines the topic from a legal perspective.

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  • Lots of logical fallacies by both parties ITT.

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  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Being gay is a choice. Plain and simple. If that means being straight is a choice too, then so be it. In that case, I CHOOSE to be straight. If you choose to like dudes then by all means, gay sex it up. But don't cop out and claim it wasn't your choice. Sure it was. You chose penis over pvssy. Absolutely baffling but whatever. None of my business.

    The real discussion is should gay couples be allowed to adopt children? Discuss.... coffee

    So what you’re saying is that people can get aroused to both P and V, and you just simply decide to go with V because you prefer it. So it’s kind of like me liking both Pepsi and Coke, but when faced with the choice I choose Coke because I like it more right? To answer your question yes. I don’t see why not. Its better than a lot of the other alternatives for orphans.

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  • I don't agree with homosexuality but if they want to live that way then more power to them....I just find it disgusting

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  • psubills62 said...

    Haha, I even said I wasn't arguing that it doesn't happen in nature. Even if it does, that doesn't prove it's right. That's why I don't care about conceding that one.

    So now you want to debate right and wrong? You just conceded this entire thread...

    It's my island. I OWN IT.

    beirutvol

  • You actually bring up an interesting topic, beirutvol. In a lot of these discussions it's a very direct hetereosexual vs. homosexual situation. However, and a lot of people won't touch these issues with a ten-foot pole, there are people who claim to be a woman stuck in a man's body or vice versa (some getting the surgery, some not). It's where the whole "gender is psychological" thing comes from.

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  • SpartanRocky said...

    You've posted a study that "suggests" that being gay means you have a higher % of being a pedophile. It's far from conclusive.

    I'd love to see evidence that you chose to be straight. You're telling me you made a conscious decision one day to be straight? Come on, that's complete horse manure. You like women and I doubt you were "tempted" to get with a dude.

    The lengths people will go to make their clear homophobia seem justifiable are staggering.

    lol Yes I did, and I also posted a study where suicide rates were found to be higher among homosexuals. If killing yourself isn't one aspect of "destructive," I'm not sure what is.

    Are you questioning the study? You don't think that it's significant to say that pedophiles are more likely to be homosexual than heterosexual?

    Putting words in my mouth. When did I say I chose to be straight? Do people even read my posts, or just respond to what they think I said? I've even explicitly said that I don't think the temptations are a choice...but I do think homosexuals can change if they want to. There are many environmental influences that affect a person's "sexuality." I never said people up and choose what they want to be, but I do think people can change...they can actually change both ways.

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  • mriderblue16 said...

    Okay, just ask a gay person.

    Again why are straight people trying to tell gay people they weren't born that way?

    It's like me telling someone whose parent died "it doesn't hurt, you are just a pvssy"

    You have no idea, you haven't experienced it. So how do you know they were or weren't born that way?

    Cuz the Bible told you that? Or Santorum said so?

    The reactions to this argument always entertain me:

    On one side, you have a group who stays firm in their belief that God gives us all choices in life.

    On the other side, you have a group who believes the above group is closeminded and there is no choice involved.

    The irony is that the second group calls the Chrisitian group closeminded and--in doing so--most are closeminded themselves.

    WRobins

  • psubills62 said...

    lol Yes I did, and I also posted a study where suicide rates were found to be higher among homosexuals. If killing yourself isn't one aspect of "destructive," I'm not sure what is.

    Of course it is. Do you have any idea the social conditions homosexuals live in? The way they're treated? The insults? The beatings? Jesus man, of course they commit more suicides.

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  • beirutvol said...

    So now you want to debate right and wrong? You just conceded this entire thread..

    Where did I concede the entire thread? Not even close.

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  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Right after you show me some evidence that people are born gay.

    Page 9, near the bottom.

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    Jcrick

  • ilovelamp51 said...

    I think the actual act of being gay is beyond repulsive..... (hence me being straight)

    Other than that, I think I'd love to be gay. "Hey sugartits do you mind if we go to the bar and watch the game?" "H-word no I don't mind... It's all you can eat wing night. Duh. Let's go"

    Sorry I left the seat up there dumplin. "It's cool, I do piss standing up."

    "That a-wordhole just called me a fag" :::walksoverandkickshisass:::: #Feelsgoodman

    Yep. I think besides the touching / not sleeping with women part, being gay is pretty MAG.

    You left out the part where someone spray paints "queer" on the hood and sides of your car or when a group of "non-supporters" gangs up on you or your S.O. when you're walking home and beats the bejeezus out of you.

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  • sf2k4 said...

    Of course it is. Do you have any idea the social conditions homosexuals live in? The way they're treated? The insults? The beatings? Jesus man, of course they commit more suicides.

    Read the post. The studies were done in New Zealand and the Netherlands - two societies that are very accepting of homosexual behavior.

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  • psubills62 said...

    Read the post. The studies were done in New Zealand and the Netherlands - two societies that are very accepting of homosexual behavior.

    Did the homosexuals in the study receive absolutely zero contact from people in other countries? Were they cut off from reading about how homosexuals were treated in other parts of the world? Did they have no friends in places like the U.S. where homosexuals are treated so poorly?

    Furthermore, just because the Netherlands are in general more accepting of homosexuality, were they NEVER treated like lesser people because of their sexual orientation?

    This post was edited by sf2k4 on 3/22/2012 at 1:21 PM

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  • psubills62 said...

    Read the post. The studies were done in New Zealand and the Netherlands - two societies that are very accepting of homosexual behavior.

    Lulz. You think because they are more accepting that they are still accepted universally?

    Canada allows gay marriage, generally very accepting, but kids still bully homosexuals, they still get treated like crap from some people.

    Also many gay people are deathly afraid of coming out of the closet due to worries they won't be accepted. Whether those fears are valid or not are inconsequential.

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  • psubills62 said...

    lol Yes I did, and I also posted a study where suicide rates were found to be higher among homosexuals. If killing yourself isn't one aspect of "destructive," I'm not sure what is.

    Are you questioning the study? You don't think that it's significant to say that pedophiles are more likely to be homosexual than heterosexual?

    Putting words in my mouth. When did I say I chose to be straight? Do people even read my posts, or just respond to what they think I said? I've even explicitly said that I don't think the temptations are a choice...but I do think homosexuals can change if they want to. There are many environmental influences that affect a person's "sexuality." I never said people up and choose what they want to be, but I do think people can change...they can actually change both ways.

    You're confusing correlation with causation.

    Couldn't the suicide rates be the result of depression brought on by the ridicule of your life style and not solely based on being gay? I bet incidences of suicide are higher amongst minorities and other discriminated against groups . . .

    Michigan State does not and will not run the 3-4 defense.

    SpartanRocky

  • Jcrick said...

    I'm not going to read through the whole thread and read a bunch of BS from people, but I will settle the debate. It is NOT a choice. It has to do with the mixture of hormones in the female when the fetus is undergoing early neuronal development. The level of androgens (i.e., testosterone) in the pregnant female has been found to determine the level of masculine traits in the fetus, including their sexual orientation and even their childhood play preferences. If there is not an adequate level of androgens, the fetus's mind will develop on a more "female" persona, which, in a complex way, contributes to homosexuality. This is further backed up by the data that homosexual males are more likely to have an older male sibling, which scientists hypothesize results in the development of maternal antibodies to androgens (which females do not normally express at high levels outside of pregnancy), which will neutralize androgens in subsequent pregnancies, resulting in the different neuronal development.

    While homosexuality is not a choice, research points to bisexuality as a choice. fMRI scans were done to subjects who self-identified as homosexual (both male and female), bisexual, and heterosexual. When stimulated by pheromones of both the same and opposite sex, heterosexual individuals showed activity in the parts of their brain that regulate sexual attraction when given pheromones of the opposite sex and homosexual individuals showed activity only when given pheromones of the same sex, but bisexuals only showed activity when given one or the other, not both. Thus, from a neuro-biochemical standpoint, there is no such thing as a bisexual.

    This is more of what I'm talking about in terms of discussion. However, I have to argue that the first study is hardly conclusive. Exact quote: "First, androgen is not clearly related to playmate preference, a behavior also reported to be related to sexual orientation."

    And the second one doesn't really indicate a lack of choice. It seems to be measuring a response to stimuli.

    The "complex way" this stuff is contributing to homosexuality (after admittedly just glancing the article over) is that it leads to possible preferences in environmental factors. In the end, environmental factors appear to have the majority influence.

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  • sf2k4 said...

    You actually bring up an interesting topic, beirutvol. In a lot of these discussions it's a very direct hetereosexual vs. homosexual situation. However, and a lot of people won't touch these issues with a ten-foot pole, there are people who claim to be a woman stuck in a man's body or vice versa (some getting the surgery, some not). It's where the whole "gender is psychological" thing comes from.

    I just know what I've personally witnessed, bubbasf2....trying to communicate with some of these gomers is like trying to convince Fulmer lovers that Dooley isn't still secretly on Saban's payroll. Hell I still know people that think the moon landing was filmed in a Hollywood back lot.

    It's my island. I OWN IT.

    beirutvol

  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Those are extreme cases. I have a way better chance getting jumped at random than i do because I'm gay. Not to say it never happens but for the most part, it's not like that. Also don't think I would find the word queer to be offensive if I were gay. I'm white and have been called a cracker many times over the years... Never once was I offended by it. Yes, I am a cracker.

    I'm not even sure how to address the second half of your post.

    This post was edited by sf2k4 on 3/22/2012 at 1:30 PM

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  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Those are extreme cases. I have a way better chance getting jumped at random than i do because I'm gay. Not to say it never happens but for the most part, it's not like that. Also don't think I would find the word queer to be offensive if I were gay. I'm white and have been called a cracker many times over the years... Never once was I offended by it. Yes, I am a cracker.

    You have no idea what you're talking about

    Michigan State does not and will not run the 3-4 defense.

    SpartanRocky

  • SpartanRocky said...

    You're confusing correlation with causation.

    Couldn't the suicide rates be the result of depression brought on by the ridicule of your life style and not solely based on being gay? I bet incidences of suicide are higher amongst minorities and other discriminated against groups . . .

    Not at all confusing correlation with causation. I know the difference. And I've argued this enough times with people who assume I don't. Correlation does not automatically equal causation in any way. But in human behavior studies, it's extremely difficult to pinpoint causation. Correlation while reducing other factors (usually with random inclusion) is typically the best way to do it. And even then you need logical causation explanations. However, in this case correlation is a cause for concern.

    Gee whiz, people how many times do I need to address this. Those studies were done in the Netherlands and New Zealand, where homosexuality is generally accepted. Blaming society is not a valid excuse in this case. Those studies specifically went to those places because of that factor.

    This post was edited by psubills62 on 3/22/2012 at 1:35 PM

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  • ilovelamp51 said...

    Yes. I'm not sure if you were trying to poke fun of my logic but that's pretty much it. I've always been a Coke man. Been raised on Coke. (lulz) Coke Coke Coke. When I got old enough to choose my drink, coke came very natural to me. Now i do know a few friends who were drawn to the sparkling blue Pepsi can. When faced with the choice, they decided that Pepsi suited them better. They are now adults and are avid Pepsi fans. That's cool. I drink my Coke & they have their Pepsi. No bad blood between us. They are happy... I am happy.

    I don't know where I stand (somewhat undecided honestly) with them gay couples adopting children. On one hand I think it makes a more difficult life for a child for obvious reasons. On the other (and as you pointed out) it could very well make their life WAY better & really be the only chance they will ever have being raised by adults who love them. Either way the kid will face difficulties (part of life though) so I tend to side with as long as they are good parents, have at it.

    roflmao Well at least we can agree on the Coke thing right? That’s fine if you felt like it was a conscious choice for you, but understand that the majority of us who consider ourselves straight are only attracted to the opposite sex.

    It’s obviously not going to be the easiest thing for the child, but kids get ridiculed for everything nowadays.

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