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Any of the tBB? I've been de-vorced 9 years. I've got full custody of both my kids. My 14 year old daughter and 13 year old son. Oh and yeah no child support. To those single dads I say congrats and keep up the good work men and if I ever meet any of you. First round is on me.
This post was edited by TacticalTide 10 months ago
Good for you. If I were ever in that situation my wife would be in for one heck of a fight.
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Good job man. I'm married with 2 kids so I don't belong in this thread but just wanted to give you a e-five
3 time POTW, member since 2006, MLWTI: 4-3
Thanks guys. Honestly I didn't make this to toot my own horn. Just wanted to say hold your head high and pat yourself on the back. I'm nothing special. I just love my kids. It's tough being a parent but wouldn't change it for anything. They grow too fast man.
Got any pics of the ex?
I dream of a day when chickens can cross the road without having their motives questioned.
You have custody but the ex-wife doesn't pay any child support....gotta love the equality
Lol no I burned them with a bunch of other things.
I don't have custody of either of my children but my youngest daughter stays with me 90% of the time cause the Ex doesnt have time for her. Ex-wife is a cunt and I still pay her 300.00 per week. Basically the child support money is used on her partying. Just biding my time until I can take her to court and get custody.
Hope you win too many women use CS as their own personal allowance and its B.S.
whenever the wife and i get into a semi-serious fight, that is the first thing i think of. we have a 27 months old....id hate to go through a divorce, but i would eventually get over it and return to my life, but if i had to go only every other weekend seeing my kid, i would lose it i think.
definitely would be some solid attorneys hired and maybe even some dirty playing going on behind the scenes
It's just sad. It's gonna take some time but eventually I'll have enough to go to court with. My 8 year old cries when she has to go spend a couple days with her mom. She hates going because mom doesn't pay her any attention. She goes 2 weeks without even calling to check on her. Unfortunately, she's not a danger to the kids "yet" so I've got an up hill battle. The good news, she is sinking pretty fast in this mid life crisis she's going through. Partying, drinking heavily, etc. it's only a matter of time before she really screws up and gives me the ammo I need.
just send in some special forces equipped with cameras/recording devices and let them do their dirty work
Guys I'll tell ya. I was married 10 years. She walked away because of another man. While the divorce sucked in itself. The worse part and what hurt was my kids. Seeing them devastated me and pissed me off enough I wanted to choke the life from my ex. My daughter 10 years later is still bitter. My son isn't bitter but it still hurts him. Hell while I'm at it I may as well tell this story.
I had a feeling she was cheating but wasn't sure. She changed her hair style. Drastically. Started wearing skirts constantly to work after she had only wore dress pants the prior 4 years. Anyways I figured out her password to her e-mail. There was the proof. A guy she worked with. I didn't tell her I had proof I just asked her that night what was wrong etc. I asked her if there was another man. She denied it. I played along.
Next day I left like I was going to work. When I knew she was at work I drove to her work. Walked in the lobby and the receptionist, who knew me, was like " Hey what ya need". I told her I needed to see "Art". I didn't know this guy and didn't care. Well at that time I weighed about 215. Out walks "Art" who is about 6'3 250. In my mind I was thinking well I may have just made a fubar but with my temper I didn't care. I told him we needed to talk let's go outside. Keep in mind he didn't ask who I was or anything. That was telling. We get outside I said Art you can be a man and admit you're fvcking my wife or you can be a pvssy and lie. God as my witness if I'm lying I'm dying I asked him 3 times and he kept saying No I would never do that to you or anyone else. I said ok you're a pvssy. I confronted her that night and she left. Said I could keep the kids. True story. God is my witness.
My wife & I got into a huge fight discussing this one night.. We're happily married (oxymoron IYAM) and everything but we were talking about the what if game. She says naturally a girl needs her mother and I could get her every other weekend. I was beside myself at that notion. I know kids need structure but they also need active parents involved in their life. I don't know which would be better for the child but I do know which isn't an option... My kid is my life. Bump that. Her momma just might go missing.
Respect 92. That's the best thing you could have done.. not go off getting arrested for beating both their a$$es.
Stache the court system has changed drastically the past 5-10 years on fathers being able to get custody. It used to be near impossible but all that is slowly changing. Good luck with that brother. That sucks she cares more about herself than your kids.
Happy for you man.
Thank god I'm not married or have kids.
Over the last 2+ years my kids may see their mom on average twice a month. The last 6 weeks or so she's been better because her husband is having to serve jail time for his second DUI 48 days. The judge worked with him and is letting him serve his time 6:00pm-6:00am until it's done.
Sounds like she picked a winner.
Thanks man. Looking back now that I'm older (39). I think it was foolish of me what I did. I've got the attitude now fvck marriage and if they want out get to steppin. Plenty more around.
I think it was an acceptable way of handling it maturely. JMO though. If he's too much of a vagina to tell you to your face then he's not worth your time. I think showing self restraint in that situation is commendable. You sound way better off regardless.
I agree. If that was to happen now I'd just move on and be done. In a way my divorce kind of ruined me with relationships. A serious one anyways. Right now I'm fine with women serving a purpose and nothing more
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