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Some kid is bullying my kid

  • my kid is 5, and at kindergarten, a few of these kids are all mean to him...

    my kid is HUGE compared to all these kids, he is as big as a 7-year old...

    so i always tell him not to hit them and etc... so, wifey tells me these kids have been punching him and stuff, and he won't hit them back cuz i told him not to.

    told him this morning, go ahead... gloves are off. they hit you like they are playing? play just as hard. they back you into a corner, do what you think is right. i told him he will know the time...

    man, stupid schools these days, i can't barely give my kid the advice my daddy gave me

    This post was edited by GoingLightBarny on 2/16/2012 at 9:45 AM

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  • That sucks. Is teacher aware? I would tell her that since nothing has improved you instructed your son to defend himself. If she's not an idiot, she'll realize that with his size alone he could probably do some damage.

    FSULaura

  • Solid advice. I'm going to tell my kid never to bully and let him know what will happen if he does... at the same time, if kids are hitting him, I want him to punch them right on their punk-ass nose as hard as he can. Most times, if you hit a bully back, he won't do it anymore.

    getmyjive11

  • getmyjive11 said...

    Solid advice. I'm going to tell my kid never to bully and let him know what will happen if he does... at the same time, if kids are hitting him, I want him to punch them right on their punk-ass nose as hard as he can. Most times, if you hit a bully back, he won't do it anymore.

    This is spot on IMO. I have two girls 10 and 5. And a one year old boy. Fortunately my girls haven't experience any problems yet. But if the time comes. This is similar to what I would say.

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  • Made me think of this video

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    School Bully Gets Slammed by Fat Kid

    Wow Thanks for 100,000 views!

    http://www.youtube.com/v/QVHRtDzPF8Q
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  • LOSNOLES said...

    That video is awesome, it never gets old. Kid deserves to get his arse kicked

    yeah...

    it is amazing, my son is so big... he would just destroy someone his age.

    i really hope he can stay out of trouble... i fought a ton growing up, as i was always smaller, and i was all happy my kid might not have to do all that...

    5 years old and has to make these decisions...

    i told him to be nice to the kids that were mad all the time, because they were mad because they were hurting... now those little jerks are making my kid hurt... so, gloves are off... why do the laws have to be all jacked up? i swear, i don't want my kid all in trouble because of this.

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  • FSULaura said...

    That sucks. Is teacher aware? I would tell her that since nothing has improved you instructed your son to defend himself. If she's not an idiot, she'll realize that with his size alone he could probably do some damage.

    hmmm.. his teacher is probably not aware, it happens at lunch and recess. they pick on him and won't play with him because of what i told him, i think... we will see... i know that when i was getting picked on as a kid, i would fight them to death and then we would be friends... i hope he doesn't have to pound some kid into understanding, but if he does, i guess i better get a lawyer, the way the world is today

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  • Same happened to my boy two years ago when he was 9, talked to the teachers, threatened the parents as well to no avail then the teachers berated my son for telling me, so I went to Academy (a local sporting goods store and national chain) and bought him a punching bag, boxing gloves, speed bag, jump rope, weight set and bench and taught him how to box and work out. He has been doing it regularly the last two years and does not get messed with anymore. He knows how bad it is to have a personal bully so it was not hard to make sure he does not do the same. I know your kid is only five but it is never to early to teach them how to take care of and stick up for themselves especially if the school will not do anything as it was in my case.

    This post was edited by oufisherman on 2/16/2012 at 10:17 AM

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  • That is why I am putting my daughter in a martial arts class when she turns 3.

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  • oufisherman said...

    Same happened to my boy two years ago when he was 9, talked to the teachers, threatened the parents as well to no avail then the teachers berated my son for telling me, so I went to Academy (a local sporting goods store and national chain) and bought him a punching bag, boxing gloves, speed bag, jump rope, weight set and bench and taught him how to box and work out. He has been doing it regularly the last two years and does not get messed with anymore. He knows how bad it is to have a personal bully so it was not hard to make sure he does not do the same. I know your kid is only five but it is never to early to teach them how to take care of and stick up for themselves especially if the school will not do anything as it was in my case.

    yeah, i was going to try and get him into boxing, but they don't have youth boxing out here til they are 8, at least not that i can find. i trained muay thai for a long time, but i don't want him in that at such a young age... it's pretty brutal on bones and joints...

    karate is for homos... maybe wrestling to start, but there again, that is hard on the growth plates...

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  • blue2468 said...

    That is why I am putting my daughter in a martial arts class when she turns 3.

    Not only is mine in, I told her the age that she gets to date is, among other things, directly related to the belt rank she is..

    Kokopelli

  • GoingLightBarny said...

    yeah, i was going to try and get him into boxing, but they don't have youth boxing out here til they are 8, at least not that i can find. i trained muay thai for a long time, but i don't want him in that at such a young age... it's pretty brutal on bones and joints...

    karate is for homos... maybe wrestling to start, but there again, that is hard on the growth plates...

    I agree especially with the growth plates, I have kept my boy out of football for that reason and this will be his first year and with the boxing workouts it is nothing more than strength, conditioning and hand eye coordination which has helped him tremendously in baseball.

    oufisherman

  • If they keep fighting him tell him to go stomp out some ignorance

    scarface4778

  • bhiley77 said...

    That's absolutely perfect. Just for confidence alone. All in all I had great parents but the one thing I'd have changed is the fact they constantly told me to never fight back and always turn the other cheek. If I had kids, I'd tell them to go absolutely Mike Tyson ear biting psycho on anybody who picked on them, and if they got suspended I'd take the day off from work and take them to disneyland to celebrate a bully-stomping.

    When I told the school and the kids parents that if the bullying continued I would have my boy kicking his ass and they told me that if that happens I could go to jail then I told them if they do not wish to take care of it I have plenty bail money. Turning the other cheek does not always work and was never an option for us boys with our dad but I guess there are many ways to skin a cat...lol

    oufisherman

  • Here goes Barny in a few days

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    Bad Santa - I beat the shit outta some kid...

    The best Bad Santa scene.

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  • spearhead9399 said...

    This is spot on IMO. I have two girls 10 and 5. And a one year old boy. Fortunately my girls haven't experience any problems yet. But if the time comes. This is similar to what I would say.

    While there are some girls who pursue the physical route, most of them pursue psy ops and emotional bullying. It is ugly as ugly can get. Teen and pre-teen beyotches are ruthless with the spoken word.

    wild pony714

  • Tell him to stab them with his pencil

    LScootU

  • you're doing all you can do barney

    thats what you need to do

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  • GoingLightBarny said...

    my kid is 5, and at kindergarten, a few of these kids are all mean to him...

    my kid is HUGE compared to all these kids, he is as big as a 7-year old...

    so i always tell him not to hit them and etc... so, wifey tells me these kids have been punching him and stuff, and he won't hit them back cuz i told him not to.

    told him this morning, go ahead... gloves are off. they hit you like they are playing? play just as hard. they back you into a corner, do what you think is right. i told him he will know the time...

    man, stupid schools these days, i can't barely give my kid the advice my daddy gave me

    My son has always been the biggest in his class as well. This is the exact same advice I've given him. So far no one has tried to bully him, but if they do his leash will be removed.

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  • GoingLightBarny said...

    my kid is 5, and at kindergarten, a few of these kids are all mean to him...

    my kid is HUGE compared to all these kids, he is as big as a 7-year old...

    so i always tell him not to hit them and etc... so, wifey tells me these kids have been punching him and stuff, and he won't hit them back cuz i told him not to.

    told him this morning, go ahead... gloves are off. they hit you like they are playing? play just as hard. they back you into a corner, do what you think is right. i told him he will know the time...

    man, stupid schools these days, i can't barely give my kid the advice my daddy gave me

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  • LOSNOLES said...

    I dont blame you for the concern. The sad part about it is it seems the kids who do the bullying get off way easier then the kids that defend themselves from these clowns. I would express my concern to the teacher to protect your kid. That way if he defends himself the school administrators will know of the on going problem. Not saying that it will get him off, but they will be well aware of the situation.

    This. Definitely do this and document each conversation with dates, times and detailed notes. You do this and you've really gone a long way toward protecting your son.

    bvg153555

  • I would flip a sh!t on the teacher and the principal if i ever found out my kid was getting bullied.

    TNoles813

  • buy him a pair of German Shepperds & let them walk him to school .

    i had a pair when i was a kid & the bully's avoided me like the plague. cool

    Crimson_Ghost

  • oufisherman said...

    Same happened to my boy two years ago when he was 9, talked to the teachers, threatened the parents as well to no avail then the teachers berated my son for telling me, so I went to Academy (a local sporting goods store and national chain) and bought him a punching bag, boxing gloves, speed bag, jump rope, weight set and bench and taught him how to box and work out. He has been doing it regularly the last two years and does not get messed with anymore. He knows how bad it is to have a personal bully so it was not hard to make sure he does not do the same. I know your kid is only five but it is never to early to teach them how to take care of and stick up for themselves especially if the school will not do anything as it was in my case.

    IMHO this is the best way to handle this. Teach self defense.

    SDWolverine

  • Bully needs a cvnt punt IMO

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