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The Attack on Religious Freedom

  • Hawkifish said...

    You see, that right there is discrimination and is unconstitutional. So a guy couple that has been together for say 40 years shouldn't get the sane benefits as two heterosexuals who met each other at a bar a week ago?

    Hawk - using an extreme example to make your point doesn't make your point. You're better than that. It isn't discriminatory to deny someone something that isn't their right. The polygamist feels like they should have the same rights. Where's your sympathy for them?

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  • theFightingtide said...

    I do not see that as being self-righteous. That is asking God to help him out, whether he thinks he needs it or not.

    Not saying it is you, but there are a lot of people in the world today that have been rubbed the wrong way by Christians, and it is obvious that some of us(Myself included) are rather bold with our statements, but I do not think telling someone you are praying for them is being too bold and self-righteous.

    It's basically telling someone that they need help from God. To me that seems kind of demeaning. Especially when it is coupled with statements calling the person ignorant.

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  • goodnews said...

    Hawk - using an extreme example to make your point doesn't make your point. You're better than that. It isn't discriminatory to deny someone something that isn't their right. The polygamist feels like they should have the same rights. Where's your sympathy for them?

    So it isn't their right to get the same tax breaks and such that married heterosexual couples do? Why?

    As to your second point, I see polygamy as immoral and don't view homosexuality that way.

    Edit: the reason why I feel polygamy is immoral is because it discriminatory against women. I don't see homosexuality as being discriminatory against anyone.

    This post was edited by Hawkifish on 2/24/2012 at 3:45 PM

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  • Hawkifish said...

    It's basically telling someone that they need help from God. To me that seems kind of demeaning. Especially when it is coupled with statements calling the person ignorant.

    It is my belief that everyone needs help from God. I guess if they don't like it, oh well. It is also their right to walk away, ignore me, or make a starement(as you did) and then I will have a reply(hopefully an informative reply) for whatever if is.

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  • theFightingtide said...

    It is my belief that everyone needs help from God. I guess if they don't like it, oh well. It is also their right to walk away, ignore me, or make a starement(as you did) and then I will have a reply(hopefully an informative reply) for whatever if is.

    Yes I agree. I don't give a rip if you express your opinion in such a way.

    This post was edited by Hawkifish on 2/24/2012 at 4:00 PM

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  • goodnews said...

    Folks, hold your stinking horses. I apologize but I work a good bit. I also said before (in another thread) that I'm not going to get in a internet source war with you. A huge problem in our country is that we are beginning to debate and make up our minds via Wikipedia. I prefer to get my info from reputable, well sourced, peer reviewed, published materials. Whatever your position I implore you not to educate yourselves via the internet. MOST EVERYTHING ON THE INTERNET IS PUBLISHED BY MOSTLY UNINFORMED ZEALOTS FROM BOTH SIDES. I'm not currently with my library, but I would refer you to an extremely well-sourced book by Dr. James Dobson entitled, "Marriage Under Fire." I also have a friend of a friend who's a missionary in Germany but has spent a good bit of time in Holland. And, since the law hasn't been in place but about 10 years or so the effects are just starting to be seen. But, the attitude toward relationships and marriage in general has begun to go south. It's not only due to gay marriage to be sure. Gay marriage is really just a symptom of the problem.

    So what you are saying is this:

    I have no proof of my statements, so I will make up crap in hopes some fool will believe.

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  • blue2468 said...

    So what you are saying is this:

    I have no proof of my statements, so I will make up crap in hopes some fool will believe.

    Nailed it.

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  • Hawkifish said...

    Nailed it.

    I have a friend of a friend who claims to know that different-sex marriages is what going to cause the end of the world.

    They are also the cause of global warming, death, and why there is no life on Mars.

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  • blue2468 said...

    I have a friend of a friend who claims to know that different-sex marriages is what going to cause the end of the world.

    They are also the cause of global warming, death, and why there is no life on Mars.

    All of the above may be correct, with the exception of your Mars comment.... that one gets chalked up to the commies.

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  • Fuzz said...

    All of the above may be correct, with the exception of your Mars comment.... that one gets chalked up to the commies.

    Commies = different-sex married couples.

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  • confused I don't even know what's real anymore

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  • Fuzz said...

    confused I don't even know what's real anymore

    According to my other's friend's friend, nothing is real.

    Besides bacon and Taco Bell.

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  • goodnews said...

    Hawk - using an extreme example to make your point doesn't make your point. You're better than that. It isn't discriminatory to deny someone something that isn't their right. The polygamist feels like they should have the same rights. Where's your sympathy for them?

    Non sequitur. And that third sentence is downright scary.

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  • goodnews said...

    but I would refer you to an extremely well-sourced book by Dr. James Dobson entitled, "Marriage Under Fire."

    Did any of you actually look to see who he is? From [gasp, forgive me goodnews] Wikipedia:

    "James Clayton "Jim" Dobson, Jr. (born April 21, 1936) is an American evangelical Christian author, psychologist, and founder in 1977 of Focus on the Family (FOTF), which he led until 2003. In the 1980s he was ranked as one of the most influential spokesmen for conservative social positions in American public life. Although never an ordained minister, he was called "the nation's most influential evangelical leader" by Time while Slate portrayed him as a successor to evangelical leaders Billy Graham, Jerry Falwell, and Pat Robertson."

    Also:

    "In the winter of 2004-2005, the We Are Family Foundation sent American elementary schools approximately 60,000 copies of a free DVD using popular cartoon characters (most notably SpongeBob SquarePants) to "promote tolerance and diversity." Dobson contended that "tolerance" and "diversity" are "buzzwords" that the We Are Family Foundation misused as part of a "hidden agenda" to promote homosexuality."

    Lastly:

    "In Dobson's view, homosexuality is a choice that is made through influences in a child's environment rather than an inborn trait. He states that homosexual behavior, specifically "unwanted same-sex attraction", has been and can be "overcome" through understanding developmental models for homosexuality and choosing to heal the complex developmental issues which led to same-sex attraction."

    Now, goodnews, I have no doubt that this man has influenced many millions of Americans, but I cannot read those facts, about that man, and determine that anything he's written about gay marriage is "reputable, well sourced, [and] peer reviewed."

    Probably too heavy for a Friday evening, but my God, come on.

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  • GONIG BUCK said...

    Did any of you actually look to see who he is? From [gasp, forgive me goodnews] Wikipedia:

    "James Clayton "Jim" Dobson, Jr. (born April 21, 1936) is an American evangelical Christian author, psychologist, and founder in 1977 of Focus on the Family (FOTF), which he led until 2003. In the 1980s he was ranked as one of the most influential spokesmen for conservative social positions in American public life. Although never an ordained minister, he was called "the nation's most influential evangelical leader" by Time while Slate portrayed him as a successor to evangelical leaders Billy Graham, Jerry Falwell, and Pat Robertson."

    Also:

    "In the winter of 2004-2005, the We Are Family Foundation sent American elementary schools approximately 60,000 copies of a free DVD using popular cartoon characters (most notably SpongeBob SquarePants) to "promote tolerance and diversity." Dobson contended that "tolerance" and "diversity" are "buzzwords" that the We Are Family Foundation misused as part of a "hidden agenda" to promote homosexuality."

    Lastly:

    "In Dobson's view, homosexuality is a choice that is made through influences in a child's environment rather than an inborn trait. He states that homosexual behavior, specifically "unwanted same-sex attraction", has been and can be "overcome" through understanding developmental models for homosexuality and choosing to heal the complex developmental issues which led to same-sex attraction."

    Now, goodnews, I have no doubt that this man has influenced many millions of Americans, but I cannot read those facts, about that man, and determine that anything he's written about gay marriage is "reputable, well sourced, [and] peer reviewed."

    Probably too heavy for a Friday evening, but my God, come on.

    Sounds like a guy who would use facts to back up his points....sarcasm

    The FACTS are that at present there is no evidence that gay marriage has led to any deterioration in society.

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  • goodnews said...

    I don't want to get heavily involved in another discussion. But, this post reeks with ignorance.

    As an American I have a right to be against anything that I deem to be immoral, regardless of what race or creed I hail from. I sincerely believe homosexual marriage is morally wrong, as is my right to believe. I also believe polygamy is wrong, as is my right to believe. I'm not anti-homosexual, or anti-polygamist, and quite the opposite. But, I have a right to lobby for things that I believe in and against things that I disagree with. The tyranny these days occurs more often by folks like you who use shallow reasoning to say that anyone who wants to do anything should be allowed to do it as long as it "doesn't affect others." That clause is the most dangerous ideal facing us today. and, just ask the folks in Scandinavia how the family uinit is faring since legalizing gay marriage.

    If America becomes a society that legalizes gay marriage then so be it. That's America. But, I have a right to be against it without your tyranny or any kind of labeling as a bigot, which I am not.

    Scandinavia? One of the best places in the world to live with long life spans, an intelligent population, and the least gender disparity?

    Scandinavia consistantly tops many quality of life rankings done by various groups.

    Please tell me you aren't referring to the Stanley Kurtz report that is just smoke and mirrors. Life and marriage is just fine in Scandinavia, and hasn't been affected by legalized gay marriage at all.

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  • rtota334 said...

    What traditional idea of marriage are you talking about? The one that existed in the bible? If that's the case I think you'll find that our society has completely abandoned that since we aren't treating women like property, bigamy is outlawed, and grown men aren't marrying children anymore.

    Fact is gay people exist, like it or not. The importance of family is a traditional conservative value and allowing two people who love each other to marry isn't harming the family, it's helping it. I would rather have a married gay couple living next to my family than an unmarried one just like I would rather live in a neighborhood with married straight couples. Marriage promotes stability and that is good for everyone in society. It's precisely because marriage is important, rather than the opposite, that it should be extended to everyone.

    I appreciate your response. But, I'll always insist that you know fully of what you speak. I am a Christian. I know the Bible very well, and I'll point out to you any incorrect, quick reading you may throw out. The Bible never teaches that women are to be treated as property. As a matter of fact, when the christians got to Rome and other European nations they insisted upon the rights for women and children, especially female children who were being treated as cattle in those cultures. They based their ideals on Biblical teachings. God ordained that marriage be between one man and one woman in the first couple of chapters, and grown men weren't allowed to marry children. Every culture in antiquity had a different notion on what age a person was an adult so maybe some girls were seen as adults earlier than what we see. Again, i appreciate your response, but please know what your talking about before assigning ignorant epithets to the Bible.

    I'm not against gay people existing. Fact is many folks believe marriage should be between a man and a woman. You are absolutely correct in saying that a stable family is integral for a healthy society. I believe (quiet logically) that the family is natural when it has a father and a mother raising children.

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  • Hawkifish said...

    Sounds like a guy who would use facts to back up his points....sarcasm

    The FACTS are that at present there is no evidence that gay marriage has led to any deterioration in society.


    BUDDY , what have i been missing here ? not even going to get involved with this fun stuff no

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  • BamaLivesFootba said...

    First off, just because the country was founded by people who adhered to values shared with Judeo-Christian values,does not mean this is a Judeo-Christian country. The way the country was formed completely voids that "theory". Second off, in the way the country is set up,no minority is bound by the whims of the majority. If the national sub-conscious dictates relative values,so be it,but this country is NOT set up for the religious beliefs to consciously be set upon the rule of law. The law is seperate from that. Period. You can have private religious institutions have their view on marriage,but when it comes to the rule of law on marriage,the contract between two consenting adults, it is and should not be a factor. Period.

    Bama,the fact that you understand the principles by which our country was founded is commendable. Thanks for posting! But, respectfully, there's one thing you guys just refuse to understand. While it's true that a single set of religious beliefs shouldn't dictate the laws of our nation, it's the utmost of ignorance to say that some of us are guided by a set of rules/philosophies/principles, while others are not. We all have (whether from our religious background, or whatever) a chest of ideals/principles. philosophies from which we draw to decide how we see things. As a result all of us have a right to vie for our ideal on every issue. A Christian may use the Bible as our source on an issue just like an atheist uses his/her principles/ideals/philosophies, etc in which to do the same. i'm not trying to say we have to have traditional marriage b/c it's the Christian thing to do, I'm saying that I think it's the right thing to do. It really doesn't matter where I get that ideal from any more than it matters where you get yours from.

    The rest of your post is accurate.

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  • In about 10 years i think we are gonna have some better statistics on the effects from the legalization of gay marriage.

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  • gwgator05 said...

    Just to be clear I didn't put those words in your mouth, and apologize for any confusion. I was merely giving a broad example to support my position that liberty involves having to put up with the actions of others even if we don't like how those people exercise their freedom. Some people may find flag burning to be disgusting. Some people may find homosexuality disgusting. Some people may find satanic cults disgusting. What is or isn't disgusting is subjective, but I certainly didn't intend to imply that you believe homosexuality is disgusting based on your comments.

    I appreciate your response. You've made some quality posts. I would just add that some folks might not like a country committed to traditional marriage as well. But, under your scenario they may have to live with it. I genuinely don't want to hurt anyone. However, I won't say polygamy is right just b/c a group of people think otherwise. Rather, I will work to ensure it isn't a reality in our culture. Same goes for non-traditional marriage.

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  • I find it interesting that Fred Karger, Dobson's co founder of focus on the family, took a male prostitute to Europe.

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/fred-karger/james-dobsons-co-founder_b_565570.html

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  • goodnews said...

    I appreciate your response. You've made some quality posts. I would just add that some folks might not like a country committed to traditional marriage as well. But, under your scenario they may have to live with it. I genuinely don't want to hurt anyone. However, I won't say polygamy is right just b/c a group of people think otherwise. Rather, I will work to ensure it isn't a reality in our culture. Same goes for non-traditional marriage.

    i def admire your persistence in fighting the good fight , lots of great points are being made by both sides ... cheers

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  • shoeless7777 said...

    BUDDY , what have i been missing here ? not even going to get involved with this fun stuff no

    Gay marriage debate shrug

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  • Hawkifish said...

    Gay marriage debate shrug

    i know thats why i am sitting this one out - you are too good at knowing your side of the debate ; you take all the fun out of it surrender

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